Hi Ash here checking in...
And my story...
My girl left me for my friend...someone younger, richer and
more fun to be with.
However she told me to give her 2 years to decide who she wants to
be with (whoever treats her better - all 3 of us works in the same
place).
Meanwhile, I'm to reflect and try to be financially
stronger. She said at the present both stand a chance of 50/50.
However, if she will to return to me, I'm to let her have control
over my financial (it seems my friend knew about her worries ( plus
alot other things ), although not lacking, is tight and he went and
show her his account and even offer to let her have control over
it.)
I understand of her worries about financial stability, but I'm
already on my way of getting it ready... isn't a couple ( we were
planning to get married ) suppose to work together and build
everything together (although I have never and most likely will not
expect her to come out with anything as her pay is low).
I'm presently covering for her by behaving like nothing has
happened eg during break she still sits by my side...(and they also
talk to each other less when around our other friends)don't want
others to label her as bad.
I know you might think I'm the stupid type...but I'm the type that
always put
others ahead of myself first and I will never do anything that
might hurt her.
It just that it really hurts inside of me...
I do love her, and I believe she still has feelings for me.
It's just that she's afraid of a future where money problems might
be a factor.
It stems from her family having the same issuses.
And yes its unfair for what they did to me...one is my girl and
another a friend I care and trusted.
Maybe you can call my weak...I just hope they will breakup and she
will return to me.
That's why I was wondering if any way I could get to know what to
do...
I'm really confuse now.
I'm even thinking of seeking a future teller or some Psychics to
know what I should do. Anyone can help or with similar experience
can advice?
Thank you for reading my mail.
Thanks.
Ash
